How to Start Cross Stitching for Beginners: The Ultimate Guide

April 10, 2025

So, you've taken the first step in wanting to find out more about getting started with cross stitch, and you've certainly come to the right place. Cross stitch is a fun and relaxing hobby, enjoyable for those of all ages and abilities. With its relaxing and calming benefits, many people are turning to this craft to help improve their mental wellbeing and reduce their screen time while also learning a new skill. If you are a cross stitch beginner, not quite knowing where to start, this guide will offer you all of the steps you need to get going.

What is Cross Stitching?

Cross stitching is a form of embroidery that uses X-shaped stitches to create designs on fabric. It’s one of the easiest types of needlework to learn, making it an ideal choice for beginners. The process involves following a pattern, which is usually in a grid format, to place stitches in specific spots on a piece of fabric. With just a few basic supplies and a little patience, you’ll soon find yourself crafting intricate patterns that range from simple to highly detailed.

Compared to other craft hobbies, cross stitching is super simple to get started with. You don’t need a lot of expensive tools or extensive preparation. Plus, there’s an abundance of online resources, tutorials, and bustling communities ready to support and inspire you as you begin, so you’ll never feel alone.

Why Choose Cross Stitch as a Hobby?

Cross stitching offers a host of benefits that make it a fantastic hobby for people of all ages and skill levels. Here are some reasons to help you consider whether this is the right hobby for you: 

• Stress relief and mindfulness - The repetitive nature of stitching can help calm and distract the mind, making it an effective way to manage stress, anxiety, or depression. 
• Reduces screen time -  Having your hands and lap full of cross stitching tools, ensures your hands are being kept busy and stops the endless phone scrolling that we’re often guilty of.
• Creative expression - From whimsical patterns to intricate designs, cross stitching allows you to express yourself creatively. Make patterns your own by choosing alternative colours which best suit your taste, and adding personal touches or signatures to your piece.
• Affordable - Unlike some hobbies that require expensive equipment, cross stitch supplies are relatively inexpensive and easy to pick up from high street craft shops or online.
• Ageless - Whether you’re 7 or 87, cross stitching is a craft that is easily accessible to all.
• Portable - Many cross stitch supplies are small and portable so you can take your cross stitch project anywhere, making it an ideal activity for travel or downtime.
• Community - There is a vibrant community of cross stitchers worldwide who you can find through online forums, social media, or local craft groups. Should you wish to join, they will be ready and waiting to welcome you with open arms.
• Skill development - As you progress, your skill will improve and you’ll soon learn how to tackle more challenging patterns and stitching techniques.

Cross stitch can provide a real sense of accomplishment and pride as you see your designs come to life. It’s also a wonderful way to create meaningful, handmade gifts for friends and family. From bookmarks and ornaments to framed art that can be hung on a wall, your creations can be cherished for years to come.

Cross Stitching Equipment You’ll Need

Starting your cross stitch journey requires just a few basic supplies. Here’s a list of everything we recommend you’ll need to set you up:

• Aida fabric - The most popular choice for beginners, Aida fabric has an easy-to-count grid pattern, making it clear to see where your stitches need to go in relation to the pattern.
• Embroidery threads (also called ‘floss’) - We’d always recommend choosing a high-quality floss, as their strength makes them more durable and easier to work with. Brands like DMC are widely recommended and come in a rainbow of colours.
• Needles - Tapestry needles with blunt tips are perfect for cross stitching.
• Embroidery hoop - Available in a range of styles and sizes, embroidery hoops help to keep your fabric taut while stitching, making it easier to keep track of where you are, and your stitches neater. 
• Scissors - Small, sharp scissors for trimming threads.
• Pattern or chart - Find beginner-friendly designs but that you love the style of. You want to enjoy looking at what you’re stitching! There are thousands of patterns available online.
• Get comfortable - Get yourself settled in a comfortable chair in a bright, well-lit area as this will help to reduce eye strain. You may also find a table lamp or a clip lamp useful for giving your working area even more light.
• Optional supplies - There are many other accessories and gadgets out there to help you with the organisation of your supplies once you get started. Once your collection starts to grow, you may find thread organisers, needle minders, hoop buddies, and a storage box for your materials useful items to invest in.

With the pattern, threads, fabric and needle inside, we provide all the essentials you need in one convenient package.

Creating Your First Cross Stitch

Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you create your first cross stitch pattern:

1. Prepare Your Materials. Gather your supplies and accessories and select a simple pattern to start. Secure the fabric in your embroidery hoop.
2. Thread the Needle. Separate your strands of embroidery floss (usually 2 or 3 strands), and cut your floss to a manageable length. We recommend using the length from your elbow to your middle fingers as a guide. 
3. Find the Centre. Locate the centre of your fabric and pattern by folding them in half, and then half again. We always recommend starting your stitching from the centre of the pattern and outwards.
4. Follow the Pattern. Use the chart as your guide, stitching each X carefully. You will need to count, count and count again! Ensure your stitches are uniform and all face the same direction.
5. Finish Off. Once the design is complete, tie off the thread on the back and trim any excess. Clean and press your design, then display it proudly for all to admire.

It’s important to take breaks and enjoy the process. Cross stitching isn’t a race; it’s about finding joy in each stitch. If you’re feeling stuck, there are plenty of video tutorials available online.

Improving Your Cross Stitch Patterns

Once you’ve completed your first project, here are some tips to help you improve and refine your skills:

• Practice regularly: Start with simple patterns and stitch as frequently as you can so you don’t forget where you last left your design. Gradually build up the intricacy of your designs each time you start a new piece.
• Explore resources: Use platforms like YouTube and Pinterest for inspiration and tutorials. There is also a worldwide community of cross stitchers that you can find over on our Facebook page.
• Experiment with techniques: There are so many techniques which can help elevate and add variety to your work. Whether it’s backstitching, French knots, blending colours or adding a signature, there are endless ways to make designs unique to you.
  • Organise your supplies: Keep threads and patterns well-organised for easy access with proper cross stitch storage and to keep a track of everything you have.
• Seek feedback: Share your work with friends, relatives and of course online communities to receive encouragement and constructive advice.

For more ideas on advancing your skills, we have plenty of resources for beginners; whether you're wondering what cross stitch accessories you need, are interested in joining one of our Stitch-a-Longs or would like to sign up for our subscription boxes.

Fun Cross Stitch Ideas to Try

As you gain confidence, consider branching out with these creative project ideas:

• Seasonal patterns: Create seasonal or designs for holidays like Christmas, Halloween and Easter.
• Personalised gifts: Choose designs you know they will love, then personalise them by stitching initials, names, or special messages.
• Home decor: Make wall hangings, cushion covers, or table runners to help decorate your space and proudly display your works of art.
• Mini projects: Try quick small cross stitch designs like bookmarks, keychains, or coasters for instant gratification.

Cross stitch is endlessly versatile, and there’s always something new to explore. Many patterns are available for free or at a low cost, ensuring you never run out of inspiration.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I start my first cross stitch?

Follow our step-by-step guide above to begin your journey into cross stitching.

Is cross stitch harder than crochet?

No, cross stitching is generally considered easier, especially for beginners as it follows a very structured pattern.

Is cross stitching easier than embroidery?

Yes, cross stitch is often more straightforward because of the gridded fabric and simple X-shaped stitches.

Does it matter which way you start your cross stitch?

It’s best to start at the centre of the fabric to ensure the design fits properly.

Is cross stitch good for mental health?

Absolutely! Cross stitching is an extremely mindful activity, distracting you from the busy-ness of life, and stopping you from endlessly scrolling devices. Many people use cross stitch to help reduce stress and improve their mental wellbeing.

What is the easiest fabric to cross stitch on?

Aida fabric is the most beginner-friendly option as it features a clear grid structure.

Ready to Get Started?

Now that you know how to start cross stitching for beginners, it’s time to begin your first project! Good Luck! Check out our beginner kits for everything you need, explore more resources on our blog, or reach out to our Facebook group, where thousands of other stitchers are ready to support you. Whether you’re crafting for relaxation, creativity, or community, cross stitch is a rewarding hobby that anyone can enjoy.

Happy stitching!

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